What am I, the were community agony aunt?

Disclaimer: Im not bitching about this, I actually like it, I just dont understand whay it happensI spend very little time interacting with main channels (either on werenet or crossroads, yes I go to both ... deal), infact most of my convo time is spent PMing (impressive considering I use BitchX). The strange thing is that for some reason I keep ending up as a sympathetic ear and occasionally saying something that can be construed as advice. I dont try to do this, and certainly dont mind it, Im just confused by it.